I won't mind the number of partners if she is physically attracted to me. She obviously had not displayed any of the 5 issues you laid out (at least she hasnt shown it one bit). You are right about the emotional attachment. That said, if you think youve found the one (a dubious train of thought to begin with), by all means, give it a go, and see if it works out. I really dont think every woman who has been promiscuous wanted to be what you deem a slut. Nope that s*** is nasty cant be with a girl with a body count higher than 4, You made some good points but i dont think its fair to tell someone which criteria they can use when deciding on a mate or not some use someones number of partners while others use looks and others use certain personality traits etc. Create an account to follow your favorite communities and start taking part in conversations. Folks need to grow up and kill all the judgement as if they are walking perfection. Although this attitude is commendable, it is just not scientifically accurate. Im very flattered, but not creeped out enough yet to worry about it. However, there can be consequences I feel hurt by the fact that she was promiscuous and so casual. By the help of the Queen mother _= A RUNS GIRL TURNS TO BE A MILLIONAIRE !!! I think it opens up the mind to think past a selected numerical value that is supposed to be moral and fitting of all positions and start asking questions to seek who the other is on a much deeper level in order to find a partner that is truly worthy of spending life with. Also in your other comment you gave the example of the rapist and that is a great way to make your point, but lets flip this. I am sharing my experiences and opinions. I literally threw up. Indeed, while the data presented in The Marriage Project's 418-person study is legitimate, experts say that the conclusions drawn from it -- especially those which cast judgement on one's sexual history and incite sentiments of slut-shaming -- may not be entirely accurate. Questions and Answers. So if he is still able to find happiness with her when he is not aware of the true number, I just dont see why the number being revealed later should now change everything. We told the truth and we understood each other. Maybe you just don't understand why she does it? Im just curiouswhat is your take on any of your male gender having premarital sex? We women are more than what is between our legs. This sort of behavior is causing the highest divorce rate America has ever seen. I dont know if i should open up anymore or not. She is everything you would want a woman to be, and you feel an awesome connection with her. So lets be perfect in a less than perfect world and provide a few undeniable examples: Your RENT is due and it is $800 and you only have $620Do you have the right or wrong amount??? Am a runs girl last month but now a millionaire today. Again I am not saying go out there and be loose just addressing your point about the wear and tear. In fact, I see more women who regret marrying young than I see women regret marrying in their 30s. I have just as much right to sleep with however many men I chose, even if its none. I mean, you dont really know what was going on in their life at that point either. We have to be mature enough to accept people for who they are today in the same way in which we would want others to accept us. awesome line and I agree completely. Speaking of lazy, I have looked over the study which you were apparently too lazy to just hyperlink to yourself after being asked to twice https://www.jstor.org/discover/10.2307/3600089?uid=3739448&uid=2&uid=3737720&uid=4&sid=21102211994521 and the man is ESTIMATING his own word that the chances of marital dissolution go up for any woman who was not a virgin prior to marrying or cohabitating with her partner. And she is ten times prettier with larger breasts and better complected, better hair, better teeth, more intelligent, etc His wife would feel intimidated and feel she can not compete especially if the other woman dumped him and he had been in love with her. Yall need to start doing some research and stop sleeping around. on how people should behave with their bodies. In the last few years I have hurt her with my venting and myself deeply as well with the thought of it. Theres nothing special about having a turn with a town bicycle. It is expected of women to value themselves more highly then what we expect of men. rates, confused male and female roles, teen pregnancy and unwed mother figures I do not think it is worth walking away from a woman you genuinely connect with, but again that is my opinion. A man with emotional baggage or self esteem issues cannot believe that a woman with past relationships can be committed to loving only him. Men and women are different, in case you hadnt noticed. Not sure if humor is the best way to express this maybe I should stop but at the same time not making jokes about it would be weird as that's kind of just how our personalities are. . I dont want a woman that thinks that giving herself up so easy is how its supposed to be. Dont allow the negative thoughts to hinder your relationship or your overall quality of life. toss out the American System of justice including the very notion of So sure, women can be sluts and then claim they have grown, and changed, and moved past that time of their lives. I guess it really doesnt matter. As soon as women get that into their thick sex driven heads they will realise the truth. The naivete surrounding this progressivenotion about the He laid His life down for you and for me that we would not have to be separated from him because of our sinful ways and mind sets. There are enough people in the world for those to attain who they desire as they judge and chooseand more than anything it is the persons actions that will speak louder so there will be no room to judge for anything past or present! It was 5 intimacy enough. Sure, love is tough. There are women who have been with one man, and have gotten an STD. They usually have lower self-esteem, dont believe they can get better, and FEAR they wont be able to connect with another woman they like in the future, so they settle for something sub-standard. She is the woman who gets stereotyped as a slut simply because she likes to fuck around. to see just how much power in these relationships and families that women do Can you label them accurately? Knowing her past is good in understanding who she was and who she has become, but who she is today should hold the most weight in determining if she is the best person for you. Don't forget to follow us on social networks! She had to issue out, then you should get out. Perhaps you should actually, you know, read comments on the thread that you are responding to before making assumptions. I often think about the young ladies who were sexually abused in the youth, or who were taught sex is the only way to love or keep someone. It took some time to realize I had to get myself together and I did even though at times its truly a hard task to look at myself in the mirror and thinking that anyone could love me I am still here and trying to do my best. Because the why rather than the number of men is what really should be discussed in order to better understand who this woman has been and has become. Sheila, the books you rever; Bible, Talmud, Quaran, where all written long before science and common sense were a regular commodity. In a romantic sense any woman who sleeps around is unattractive to me. If the man I marry is from my state, hell definitely know someone I went to school with. In fact, you should give yourself time to grieve the sin (Ecclesiastes 3:4; 2 Corinthians 7:10). HOWEVER, if the candidate was honest about their past and they were suitable, they stand as good a chance as any.. I feel most people focus on the physical aspect of sex but overlook the mental and emotional aspect which plays an even bigger role in how good the sex can be. Like religious zealots, progressive zealots do the same thing; denying objective truths unfortunate truths but nevertheless, truths that do exist. Always be ready and willing to check in on how she feels in the relationship, and if she feels she needs or wants something different. are is the number that would still be acceptable to most. Not every girl will be good for you, but if you can get the one that's right for you, your marriage life is going to be great. What I want to encourage you to do is to understand what is done is done. of course aftewards they feel like trash, or are so cold that they lack feelings completely. And, why would she want you after all your wear and tear? It only hurts her to vent. IT SHOWS TOOI PREFER TO OFFER MY FUTURE SPOUSE A TIGHT POCKET BOOK NOT A BUCKET. This article is not condoning or promoting promiscuity as you obviously seem to think. The woman you marry gets excited about marriage and starting a family with you. Redpill and PUA groups can't do that because their inherent premise is that women are lesser and that abusive action is acceptable toward them. you do? He did this by washing His disciples feet and telling them to do likewise. Some she didnt even remember their names Marrying Into Vietnamese Family,
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